Hey all you shadow advisors out there. You know who you are. You are the ones who say things like, “Make sure he pays your health insurance until age 65,” or “Don’t agree to anything less than a 50/50 possession schedule so you don’t have to pay child support,” or “(Insert name here) got 10 years alimony, you shouldn’t accept anything less.” No two divorces are the same because no two couples are the same. Every divorce negotiation is a unique and tender process. So be supportive, offer suggestions or options to consider, but don’t tell them what to do. Leave that to their divorce lawyer 😉 !!